Scientists have proven that the average sexual encounter lasts about nine minutes, but even with this length, it’s not guaranteed that everyone will be satisfied. This is due to ignorance and personal phobias, both on the part of the woman and the man. In this article, we’ll describe common fears of sex and what to do about them.
EXCESSIVE CAUTION
Although contraceptives have made sex easier for men, they have also created fears about sex. For example, taking hormonal medications can make a woman a restless lioness, making a man feel weak. Men are afraid of sex because of the IUD, believing it might slip out and dig into their penis. Various ointments and gels also create a fear of discovering redness on their penis. In reality, these are all fears of sex among men with apprehension. Hormonal medications only affect a woman’s menstruation, while the IUD is inserted by a specialist and can only be removed by a gynecologist with a special instrument. As for gels and ointments, they can indeed cause allergies, but only if the product is of poor quality. Therefore, if he is so afraid of all these new things, it would be better to explain everything to him and even give some facts on how to overcome the fear of sex, otherwise he may completely forget about quality sex.
SIGNS OF LACK OF SEX
Since ancient times, people have worried about women’s unfulfilled sexual desires. Back then, it was believed that a lack of sex in women led to external changes: constant migraines, hair loss, a hardened personality. Nowadays, a woman can conceal any abnormalities in her appearance with a layer of makeup. But does this really help conceal sexual dissatisfaction? Unlikely. Men can immediately recognize a woman who lacks sex drive. They see it in her eyes, demeanor, and facial expressions. It’s become commonplace to assume that a definite and unbearable bitch is simply an unsatisfied woman, but of course there are exceptions…
SIZE IS IMPORTANT
The size of their male penis is their eternal headache.
Men develop complexes and fear of first-time sex if their penis size doesn’t meet their desired standards. They then try every possible way to enlarge it: they pull it back, add weights, fall for the hype of commercials, and endlessly measure it with a ruler. This can lead to depression and a complete abstinence from sex. In reality, these are just superstitions; size isn’t that important for complete female satisfaction. The average woman’s vagina is 6-8 cm long, and when erect, it’s 15-16 cm. It’s rare for a man to have a penis smaller than this. Even if a woman might look at your penis with some hesitation, you have to prove you’re a sex god, because in reality, it’s not about inches, but about your ability to give pleasure.
Average statistics show that the erect penis size of an adult male ranges from 11 to 20 cm. The largest recorded penis size is 36 cm, while the smallest (with normal functionality) is 1.3 cm.
HARD NUTS
Besides penis size, another concern for men is the size of their testicles. Men believe that two dangling golf balls are arousing for women, but if they’re small, it’s the same as fearing a “tiny” penis. Again, these are all personal insecurities and unfounded fears about sex. The fact is, testicle size isn’t important at all; what matters is their functionality. The testicles produce androgens, and the greater this production, the more pronounced the masculine qualities. Again, this doesn’t mean that larger testicles produce more androgens. No, it’s quite the opposite.
ORGASM IS EVERYONE’S BUSINESS
The most common problem is that it is generally accepted that if you love a man, you should experience an orgasm every time you have sex.
If there’s no such sensation, then it’s attributed to personal frigidity or other issues. In this case, the woman begins to fake an orgasm, moaning, scratching, and so on, even though she’s not actually experiencing anything. She believes it’s her own problem and that the man has little influence. Perhaps the root of the problem lies with the man himself. This could be because he’s simply selfish and doesn’t think about his partner’s satisfaction, wanting only what he wants for himself. Another possibility is that he’s simply poorly informed about female orgasm and pleasure, unaware of sensitive areas and how to stimulate them, so he uses one sex position and thinks everything is perfect. It’s a fact that 80% of a woman’s chances of achieving orgasm depend on clitoral stimulation, so it’s essential to know how to use it. However, there are women who block their own orgasm, which may be due to childhood upbringing, when they were actively taught that sex is dirty and disgusting. In this case, it is worth visiting a sexologist.
Sex with Blood
Sex during menstruation is strictly taboo for many women. They believe it will be unpleasant for a man, may frighten him, and is generally harmful. Again, misconceptions! During menstruation, a woman becomes more lustful and sexually active, all due to the surge of hormones. Furthermore, anything taboo is more attractive. It’s important to discuss this with your partner and practice better hygiene.
ACROBATICS IN BED
You can often hear men praising their mistresses in conversation, along the lines of, “She’s a bomb!” And then women start to wonder: are they good in bed? Or more precisely, do their men think so? After this, these poor women start trying new things and fidgeting during intimate encounters, even though in a long-term relationship they’re already craving peace and stability. Firstly, you shouldn’t pay attention to what people say to a man in your company, because it’s not guaranteed to be true. Secondly, great sex isn’t just about good technique and friction. The quality of sex depends on the relationship between people and how they feel about each other. Simply being gentle, caring, and intelligent is all that real men want.
This is how a common fear of sex, without any particular justification, can ruin your sex life, so before you get scared, it’s worth taking a closer look at the troubling problem.
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