1. Clitoris
The most famous and most sensitive spot on the female body. And this isn’t a value judgment. Several years ago, Canadian sexologists studied how women respond to stimulation of various well-known erogenous zones. They found that touching the clitoris evoked the widest range of sensations.
The clitoris can rightfully be called the “red button” for triggering intense sexual experiences.
Just keep in mind that you need to know how to use this button. Most women prefer a man to caress the area around the clitoris rather than the clitoris itself. Otherwise, the sensations may be too intense and cause discomfort.
2. Nipples
The second most sensitive point on the female body. Nipple massage stimulates the same areas of the brain as clitoral stimulation. It’s true, it doesn’t compare to the clitoral fireworks: the arousal is somewhat less intense. Nevertheless, caressing this area can also lead to orgasm. And quite an unusual one at that. Women describe it as something that simmers inside the body for a long time, then suddenly explodes, washing over them in a wave of sensation.
3. Vagina
The legendary G-spot is located somewhere around here, as are the slightly less legendary A-spot and U-spot. However, their location varies from woman to woman. Finding the pleasure zone is only possible through experimentation. The spots, incidentally, are spaced apart, so you’re sure to touch one of them during intimacy.
4. Pubis
The mons pubis (the area above the pubic bone, located just above the clitoris) is also rich in nerve endings. While its sensitivity may not compare to that of the clitoris or nipples, massaging this area can still provide a satisfying sexual experience. Furthermore, by stroking the mons pubis with your fingers up and down, you’ll indirectly stimulate the labia and clitoris, adding to the pleasurable sensations.
5. Mouth and lips
The lips are one of the most powerful pleasure centers. This is linked to every person’s very first experience of love and security. As infants, we all press our lips to our mother’s breast, and this action creates neural connections in the brain that forever associate lip stimulation with feelings of delight, love, and security.
This is largely why, later in life, kissing becomes an essential part of romantic and intimate relationships. Caress your partner’s lips with your tongue, gently trace them with your fingers, gently suck or nibble—all of this will provide a wealth of excitement.
6. Inner thigh
The combination of thin, delicate skin and proximity to the genitals makes the inner thighs one of the main erogenous zones on a woman’s body. Stroke this area with your fingers and caress it with your tongue.
If you want to add some new sensations, try tickling your inner thigh with a feather.
Claudia Six, MD, clinical sexologist
7. Buttocks
Massage, spanking, and stroking all increase blood circulation in the pelvic area, among other things. Therefore, touching the buttocks increases sexual arousal. It’s important to monitor your partner’s reaction and choose the stimulation method that she finds most pleasurable.
8. The anus and the area around it
The anus is full of nerve endings and can be very sensitive. This is what makes the so-called anal orgasm possible.
Just keep in mind that the anus, unlike the vagina, isn’t lubricated. Furthermore, the skin around and inside the anus is thinner and more delicate than that of the vagina. Therefore, if you decide to try anal sex, it’s essential to stock up on lubricants and proceed slowly, gently, and carefully.
9. Earlobes
They’re literally bursting with nerve endings and so sensitive that many people get aroused even by a heated whisper. Try kissing, licking, or nibbling your partner’s earlobe—it’s sure to arouse her and make her more passionate.
10. Neck
Kissing the neck is one of Hollywood’s most romantic clichés, and for good reason. The skin there is thin and sensitive.
Moreover, purely biologically, the neck is a vulnerable area that we try not to let anyone near.
And if we do let someone in, we perceive it as an intimate act. Almost as intimate as sex. Kissing, fingering, and caressing the tender area under the hair with the tongue are a surefire way to arouse your partner and get her in the right mood.
11. Hands and wrists
The skin on the inside of your wrists is thin and delicate, while the skin on your fingers is incredibly sensitive. That’s why squeezing your partner’s wrists, teasing the skin there with your tongue, and intertwining your fingers with hers can easily arouse her. And then she’s in your hands.
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