But does this mean that infidelity and divorce are inevitable? It’s worth noting that some people understand and accept the inevitability of some transformation of feelings over time, but there are also “romantic” souls who believe that true love never fades. It’s worth exploring the truth and whether it’s possible to improve the quality of sex and restore passion, as well as how to achieve this.
The body is designed in such a way that the hormonal surge of love is replaced by stability after some time. If a person were constantly under the same stress as at the beginning of a relationship, their organ systems would wear out very quickly. Therefore, it follows that love and the resulting overwhelming passion fade in any relationship.
What can be done to restore quality sex?
First of all, remember that everyone deserves their own personal space. Often, and women are especially guilty of this, people in love feel the urge to spend all their time with their loved one, completely forgetting about their personal matters. While this may be fine at first, it’s important to remember that this is unacceptable in family life. By losing their sense of novelty and mystery, a person automatically loses their sexual appeal to their partner. Maintain clear boundaries of your personal space and respect that of others!
Be sure to consider your partner’s wishes and discuss them. Whatever they’d like to try, don’t be surprised or react negatively to their suggestions; this will only lead to a loss of trust. Experiment with pleasure, because all expressions of love are beautiful. It’s impossible to enjoy your sex life without experimenting.
Don’t treat your partner like a book you’ve already read. It may seem familiar and there’s no point in expecting anything new. In such a situation, viewing your partner as a stranger is the best decision. At such moments, waning sexual desire threatens to rekindle. Children are a crucial factor in reducing desire in a family. Undoubtedly, this is the most wonderful thing that can happen. But sometimes parents become so immersed in their roles as parents that they completely neglect themselves. Time for yourself and your husband should always be made; it’s worth planning how and where you can be together and feel like lovers again.
Women should remember that taking the initiative isn’t just a man’s prerogative. Many men openly express the opinion that it’s precisely the lack of initial advances from their partners that diminishes their sexual desire. Don’t be shy about watching erotic films with your husband; it will only enrich your sex life. Strive to remain a mystery to your man, experiment in bed, flirt, and then you have a chance to have a healthy sexual relationship throughout your married life.
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