Watching porn can teach you some very useful things. Sexologists and porn actors shared their views on porn.
Sex education in schools provides virtually no necessary information to teenagers, who are forced to learn everything from friends, magazines, the internet, and pornographic films. But can porn provide the necessary information about intimate life?
1. What porn can’t teach you and where it’s wrong
It’s easy to find many adult films online that show, in detail and up-close, how sex should be performed. Porn is gradually becoming the primary teacher for men and women about what sex should be like in real life.
People adopt sexual techniques and behavior patterns from porn, but they don’t work outside of movies. Porn is a poor teacher, reflecting people’s sexual fantasies more than actual sex, sexologists say.
Teaching sex from porn is like learning to drive from the Fast and the Furious movies and fighting from Jason Statham movies.
Porn is made for entertainment and does not serve a scientific purpose. In pornography, partners are expected to present the most engaging image possible and perform for the camera. During filming, actors lean away from each other to ensure a clear view of their sexual partners.
Porn doesn’t teach communication, seduction, or consent. Porn barely addresses the issues of arousal, foreplay, maintaining an erection, or satisfying your partner.
In adult films, we see alternating vaginal, anal, and oral sex, but in real life, this can lead to illness and infection. A friend of mine experienced a lot of pressure from his girlfriend’s parents after he gave her an infection from alternating anal and vaginal sex. Do you need that?
Deepthroating will most often cause vomiting or injury in real life.
Anal sex isn’t as beautiful in real life as it is in the movies. You know why.
Sex in adult films differs from real life, even among porn actors. In porn, sex lasts for hours, while in real life, actors have sex for about 20 minutes with foreplay. Sex positions are much simpler and more intimate.
When people try to apply pornographic techniques in real life, things don’t go as planned. The woman ends up insufficiently aroused, and most positions are useless. Porn rarely shows clitoral stimulation, even though 40% of women require it to achieve a real orgasm.
2. What can porn teach us?
Porn can be a source of inspiration for both men and women. Watching porn together makes a couple’s intimate life more satisfying and happier.
Porn teaches that you can get any girl if you find the right approach and words.
Porn teaches you to be more emotional, to not hide your emotions, feelings, and words. Silent sex is worse than loud sex. Men want to hear moans, and women want to hear words. Perhaps even dirty and vulgar ones.
Porn excites lovers, liberates them, and helps them discover their sexual fantasies and erotic dreams.
Watching porn provides variety, reduces the desire to seek extramarital affairs, and reduces the number of cheating incidents.
Porn teaches you to have sex in the most unexpected places and interesting positions. This is not only exciting, but also greatly improves your intimate life.
Porn teaches you to dress sexy, use sex toys, and not be afraid to be vulgar and depraved.
Porn films teach people to be more confident and less self-conscious about their bodies. This is especially true for women who have many complexes about their appearance.
Porn teaches you to use your imagination, role-play, and be ready to experiment and master sexual techniques.
Does porn teach sex? Maybe not as well or fully, but it’s much better than school and other dubious sources. But not as well as a men’s magazine!
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