A Waste of Time and Energy: 15 Signs of Bad Sex

If sex is far from praiseworthy, it’s not always obvious. Especially if you have nothing to compare it to or if you’re hoping things will get better any moment now. If this article sounds like your current sex life, think about whether these relationships are worth continuing.

1. He asks you for a blowjob but never returns the favor. Once is understandable, but if it happens every time… Of course, doing something nice for someone else is pleasant, but if you get nothing in return, you lose the desire to continue.
2. He always has an orgasm; you rarely do. In sex, you can’t just care about yourself. After all, humanity invented vibrators, which are much more effective in this case.
3. If you don’t reach orgasm in 5 minutes, he blames you. As if something is wrong with you. Everything is fine! But something is clearly wrong with the person who ruins your mood and makes you feel abnormal.
4. Sex ends with his orgasm. In a normal situation, it ends when both participants are satisfied. He thinks sex is like porn, where women look like sex robots who turn on at a man’s glance and consider it a blessing to give him pleasure.
5. A mismatch of roles. He wants to see you on top and receive oral favors, yet he cuts the foreplay down to an indecent minimum. Against this backdrop, a vibrator is clearly preferable.
6. He doesn’t like your hair in intimate zones. He believes women should remove everything while men don’t have to. But that’s not how it works; you can just as easily refuse to interact with his pubic hair.
7. He doesn’t warn you about his orgasm. And everything ends up in your mouth, eyes, or on your stomach. It’s clear that if the same thing suddenly happened to him, he would be very unhappy.
8. He suggests going without a condom. Never. If you give in on this issue, there’s no telling what he’ll want tomorrow.
9. He doesn’t want to spend the night with you. You see, he dislikes someone else’s presence so much that even if he intends to see you more often, after three hours, it’s always time for him to go.
10. He thinks you’re in the mood only when he is. But if you send a naughty text while he’s watching football, no force on earth will get him off the couch.
11. He isn’t interested in the events of your life. He doesn’t give a damn about what happened to you this morning or who your favorite writer is. Anything that doesn’t boil down to sex is ignored.
12. He seems to have never washed his sheets. And he tells you he just prefers “dark-colored” bedding.
13. He doesn’t know where your clitoris is. And he doesn’t want to know, no matter how many signals you give. He doesn’t even react to conversations about it.
14. He keeps suggesting things you don’t want. Anal, threesomes, sex during your period—anything you’ve turned down many times. It’s not even that he isn’t listening; he’s just hoping that maybe this time you’ll agree.
15. He’d sooner wash his sheets than give you a compliment. You’ll never hear him say you’re beautiful. He won’t congratulate you on finishing a big project at work. Just accept it… and leave him already.