A sexy woman draws the admiring glances of many men. However, a beautiful outfit and shapely curves can sometimes hide a cold and passive partner. True sexuality lies within. By following a few tips, you can awaken it and become more active in bed.
Show Your Emotions. Nothing discourages a man more than seeing a woman who doesn’t react at all to his efforts. Move in sync with your partner. Don’t be shy about showing him that you like what he’s doing. Don’t hold back; don’t be afraid of looking silly or awkward. All of that restricts you and prevents you from being more active.
Tell Your Partner About Your Fantasies. Quite often, people hide their sexual fantasies from their significant other, fearing they will be misunderstood. That’s a mistake! Many couples radically change their lives after becoming more open with one another. Pick a few evenings a week to tell each other about your boldest dreams. Then, move on to making those desires a reality—provided, of course, they don’t cause anyone harm.
Make the First Move. You can talk about activity not just in bed, but on the “approach” to it as well. How long has it been since sex was your initiative? The more often you are the initiator, the freer you will feel in the future. You will realize that right now, everything depends solely on you.
Arouse Your Man. It is commonly believed that the man should be the one pursuing the woman, and not the other way around. This isn’t quite true. A “one-way street” game will get boring sooner or later. So, flirt with your partner, remind him of your sexuality, move beautifully, toss your hair, and whisper something arousing in his ear. A man will notice this immediately and will certainly appreciate it.
Don’t Fear the New. Passivity often manifests as a reluctance to change anything in bed. Yet, the more often you surprise your partner, the more pleasure you give him. Try to refuse new things as rarely as possible, and at the same time, suggest something unusual and previously untried yourself. Then, you simply won’t have the chance to be passive.
Take Care of Yourself. The more confident you are and the sexier you feel, the less often you’ll have the desire to do nothing or to do things half-heartedly. Show the man how great you are. Set a goal for yourself: make sure he is absolutely captivated by you.
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