A person’s eyes are positioned in such a way that during cunnilingus, nothing is visible, everything is felt, it’s like a beetle feels the ground with its antennae, and in the same way you feel the vulva with your tongue).
And now the main mistakes during cunnilingus:
- Don’t frantically lick it and everything around it. Overdoing it can be very unpleasant, as this area is extremely sensitive. Do it slowly and gently.
2. Your tongue is not a penis; it shouldn’t have an erection. Oral sex should be more like kissing: wet, leisurely, and technical. This isn’t the best time to test how deep you can insert your tongue.
3. A girl may say, “Suck me off,” but these are just words, don’t take them literally. Don’t play with her vagina as if you were a plunger clearing a clog. If she pulls away or pulls you back, stop.
4. Stop handling the area around your clitoris like it’s taffy or gummi candy. Pulling, stretching, tugging. Just no.
5. If you are working your tongue in a woman’s crotch like a dog lapping water from a bowl, stop.
6. Massage and kissing the outside of the vagina and its surrounding area are an excellent introduction to oral sex. But don’t forget about the rest of the body—legs, thighs, stomach—in foreplay, whenever possible, the woman’s entire body should be involved.
7. Women take significantly longer to climax than men. Three minutes of cunnilingus, even the most sensual and pleasurable, is unlikely to give her an orgasm.
8. If she moves her hips, don’t continue doing what you’re doing. She’s probably telling you to move left/right, higher/lower, so pay attention to that.
9. Many women don’t consider themselves attractive in this area, and therefore feel insecure and can’t fully relax. Compliment her vagina, make specific, pleasant comments about its shape, smell, or taste.
10. If she’s quiet, silent, and only moans almost inaudibly or breathes raggedly, then you’re probably on the right track. For a woman, this is a truly intimate moment that requires complete relaxation and doesn’t tolerate fuss or rushing.
11. Focus all your energy on maintaining the right rhythm instead of trying to shove your tongue into every nook and cranny. As soon as she stops moving and stops talking, you should know you’re doing it right and not stop.
12. Fingers – good. Cunnilingus – excellent. Fingers + cunnilingus – superb.
13. Know when to stop. Oral sex doesn’t always work, so don’t get upset. If she pulls you up, comply, even if you haven’t finished.
14. Women are all different, and their sensations are also different. Reading all the advice in the world about oral sex won’t help you if your partner isn’t in the mood or doesn’t like what everyone else enjoys. A moral and spiritual connection is the only unique advice.
This message is for all the girls reading this. For the love of all the orgasms in the world, don’t fake it. If a man performs cunnilingus on you and you don’t like it, please find the strength to teach him.
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