However, women can experience similar sensations too, but they need to be prepared first. Various toys are available in sex shops. In this article, we’ll explain the purpose of a butt plug and how to use it correctly.
Reasons to use a butt plug
Let’s start by describing the reasons that confirm the positive aspects of using such a toy:
Interaction with the erogenous zone around the anus
The area around the anus is one of the most sensitive, as it contains numerous nerve fibers. If this area is stimulated correctly, a woman can experience much more pleasure than her man. That’s why almost all plugs have a stopper at the base. This is done not only to prevent the product from being sucked into the anus but also to provide additional stimulation.
Training before anal sex
This statement is highly controversial. On the one hand, a stimulator will indeed accustom the sphincter to the presence of something, and the woman will soon feel comfortable. On the other hand, there are special toys for acclimating to this type of sex, which have a different shape.
K-spot stimulation
The familiar G-spot is located on the anterior wall of the vagina, and opposite it is the K-spot, which can only be accessed through the anus. Furthermore, unlike the G-spot, the K-spot is always aroused, so a woman is guaranteed an orgasm. Many lucky women wear that the orgasm from this type of stimulation is much stronger than from clitoral stimulation.
Vaginal narrowing
If you use an anal plug during sex, the vaginal walls will narrow, so both partners will experience much more pleasure.
Double penetration sensations
When asked why they need a butt plug, many women claim it simulates group sex. It’s true that some women dream of two men entering them at the same time, and with a butt plug, it’s quite possible. However, real group sex may not be as appealing, so sexologists recommend starting with just one partner and a vibrator.
HOW TO CHOOSE YOUR FIRST PLUG?
It’s important to choose your first stimulator very carefully. While we can control and contract our vaginal muscles when needed, this isn’t the case with our anal muscles. The anal walls contract and relax as the body requires. Inducing sudden and frequent contractions can damage the walls, leading to the development of various health problems. Therefore, when choosing your first toy, pay attention to the following:
For what purpose do you buy cork?
There are two types of plugs:
- For additional stimulation, these products are typically rounded with a stopper at the base, secured with a thin bar, ensuring a secure fit at the anal entrance. The bar is small and designed to enhance sensations for both partners.
- For anal preparation, these products are called “anal starters.” They are wedge-shaped and have a nearly nonexistent septum. This allows the sphincter to become accustomed to the insertion of the object and the fullness of the bowel.
Dimensions
Here, you’ll need to rely on your own preferences, but it’s best to start with smaller products. Pay attention to the size of the stopper; its diameter should be larger than the bridge, otherwise the toy will be sucked into the anus. Sometimes you can remove the stimulator yourself, but more often than not, you’ll need to seek professional help.
Material
Many may think that knowing how to use a butt plug is the most important thing, but this is a misconception. The right choice is crucial, especially for first-time users. Therefore, we advise beginners to carefully consider the material from which the stimulator is made. Each material has its own characteristics:
- Metal – is rigid and durable, and also heavy, which enhances the sensation. This product is easy to care for and suitable for any lubricant. A major advantage is that it allows for experimenting with temperatures, as the metal easily warms up under hot water or cools in the refrigerator. Suitable for experienced users;
- Medical-grade silicone – these butt plugs are very pleasant to the touch and do not cause allergies or irritation. For first-timers, we recommend silicone toys. They can be easily washed with soapy water and can be left inside the anus for up to six hours.
- Glass – borosilicate is typically used for sex toys, as it’s unbreakable. However, it’s best avoided if dropped from height. This material has the longest shelf life, is easy to maintain, and works well with any lubricant.
Additional points
There are many more criteria to consider, but they are additional:
- functions – there are models with vibration or with the possibility of internal expansion;
- decorations – complemented with rhinestones, fur products and the like;
- absence of roughness – if the advantage of a vaginal vibrator is the bumps on the surface, then with anal toys everything is completely different;
- Mandatory treatment before and after use – use a soap solution, but for greater safety, put a condom on the stimulator during sex;
- Applying lubricant – without it, using the toy is impossible, and use the lubricant specifically for this type of sex.
INSTRUCTIONS FOR USE
Now let’s move on to specific instructions for using the anal toy:
- Don’t overeat before sex. If you’ve already done so, it’s best to give yourself an enema, otherwise your partner will be able to see your entire, so to speak, inner, dark world. You might even have to find a new sex partner afterward, as not everyone is ready for such a spectacle.
- Wash the toy with soapy water, but still use a condom, as soap may not kill all the bacteria.
- Now apply a generous amount of lube—drooling isn’t enough. Also, pay attention to the type of lubricant: if you have a silicone plug, you can’t use it with silicone lubricant. Latex isn’t compatible with oil-based lubricants, and it’s best to avoid water-based lubricants altogether, as they don’t glide as well and dry out quickly.
- Now the most important part: how to insert a butt plug? We recommend having a woman do this the first time, as she’ll be able to control the depth and speed of penetration. Before you begin, relax, then grasp the base, position it against your anus, and begin inserting it slowly. Once you feel the tip inside and it feels comfortable, you can move the toy further.
- If a man wants to participate in this process, we recommend a massage before starting, as the whole body should be relaxed.
Finally, we would like to point out that if you plan to leave the plug inside your anus for a long time, you should periodically remove it and lubricate it with lubricant.
Thus, a butt plug can bring new sensations to your sex life. The main thing is to choose your first product responsibly and carefully read our instructions for use.
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