It is an extension of communication between a man and a woman, a means of communication, a way to understand each other, and to express feelings for a partner. It is an important aspect when choosing a partner, whether it’s for starting a family or for any long-term intimate relationship. Sexual compatibility is the key to a fulfilling relationship. The desire to please your woman, caring for her feelings and comfort, is an indicator of a genuine attitude towards her. Sexual intercourse should be enjoyable for both partners. There are psychological, physiological, and moral criteria that men and women must consider.
WRONG CHOICE OF LOCATION
A man pays little attention to his surroundings when aroused. Women are somewhat different. The comfort of the location affects her desire for intimacy. An untidy apartment, an unmade bed, dirt in the room, the possibility of injury, and the risk of being seen during sex prevent her from relaxing. Such an act will not bring her pleasure, and she is unlikely to want to repeat it.
ABSENCE OF FOREPLAY
It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together, how strong your feelings are, or how strong your desire to have sex is. A woman’s body is physiologically designed in such a way that her physical readiness for intercourse is slightly delayed. Foreplay is an important moment, necessary for emotional, sensual desire to trigger all other processes. A man’s erection occurs in a few seconds. A woman’s body takes longer to become aroused; it craves caresses, kisses, touches, and compliments. Without these, intercourse becomes a mere obligation.
LIGHTING
Every beautiful woman doubts her attractiveness. No matter how uninhibited she may be in bed, the awareness that her body can be examined in every detail during intercourse prevents her from fully relaxing. Bright light interferes with physical arousal. This option is only possible with mutual consent. Most women prefer dim lighting; having the lights on is considered disrespectful.
DURATION OF SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
There are two extremes related to the duration of sexual intercourse. Intense arousal can lead to premature ejaculation. Excessively long intercourse is the other extreme. A multi-hour marathon can be very frustrating. When aroused, the body exhausts its physiological resources over a short period of time. The number of female orgasms is also limited. If she is satisfied and physically tired, further orgasm is pointless. A brief or prolonged sexual encounter is perceived as selfishness, a desire to satisfy only one’s own needs.
CRUELTY AND ROUGHNESS
Rough treatment and causing pain are unacceptable. When a man rips a woman’s clothes off, tears her underwear, and forcefully throws her onto the bed, this arouses only men. The woman instinctively experiences fear. Her physiological capacity for sexual intercourse is inhibited by her body’s defense mechanism. The strength of passion should be expressed through tenderness.
ALL AT ONCE
In an effort to impress and express himself to the fullest, a man displays marvels of technique, acrobatics, and imagination. Frequent changes of positions and their variety during a single act will tire a woman. To experience pleasure, she needs to feel her sensations; the role of a circus assistant is unappealing.
CONVERSATIONS
The stronger sex is reticent. Silence is a huge disadvantage in sexual relationships. Jokes about “did the deed, turned away, and went to sleep” are sad. If a man silently completes all the actions, this leaves his partner perplexed. Before, during, and after intercourse, a woman should be confident that the man in her bed is experiencing sensual attraction, and not just satisfying his physical needs. Tender words liberate, arouse, relieve tension, and confirm their partner’s attention and satisfaction with their partner’s body.
WATER TREATMENTS
A true warrior, a winner, is ready for sex now, right away. Physical contact, even in the midst of intense passion, is more enjoyable when the partner is clean. A shower before intercourse will help avoid any slippery moments. The female body is very susceptible to any infection. Enjoying it with the thought of having to deal with it later is impossible. After sex, the situation is different. Running to wash away all the aftermath of orgasm is a mistake. It creates the impression that the contact was unpleasant, and the person is more likely to want to cleanse themselves of it. An unpleasant aftertaste will ruin the impression made earlier.
DISTRACTED ATTENTION
Distracted by TV channels and phone calls, the man demonstrates his indifference and callousness. The woman is offended by the naked physiology of the process. The dismissive attitude toward her and the unfolding act sobers her up. The arousal fades, the pleasure is lost.
TOO MUCH CUNNILINGUS
Trying to provide maximum pleasure, men often overdo it. Oral sex is gentle, sensual, and demonstrates attention and a desire to fully satisfy. Female genitals are extremely sensitive; their physiological purpose is different, designed for other functions. Prolonged cunnilingus and its excessive frequency can irritate the mucous membrane, causing pain and discomfort. Intimate caresses should be done in moderation.
DEMAND FOR ANAL SEX
Men experience particular pleasure during anal sex. It’s a psychological arousal. Physically, this act delivers the most intense sensations, due to the intense muscular pressure on the male genitals. This creates the belief that their partner will experience something similarly incomparable. For women, anal sex is extremely painful; the absence of a prostate and erogenous zones in the anus means a complete lack of orgasm.
Commands During Sex
The habit of taking complete control of any situation, manifested by giving clear commands, is the complete opposite of romance. This behavior surprises, irritates, and angers women. It interferes with sexual activity while they wait for commands. It’s perceived as psychological pressure.
Causing pain during caresses
It’s difficult to control and be aware of one’s own strength during intercourse. In the heat of passion, men often fail to notice that they’re squeezing and caressing their partner’s body too hard. A woman’s breasts are attractive, but extremely sensitive. Erogenous zones have many nerve endings, and the close proximity of blood capillaries to the skin means that strong pressure can cause pain and injury.
A Lot of Noise in the Bed
It’s always important to see that your partner is aroused by intimacy and enjoying it. But if a man snores, screams, or moans too loudly, as if he’s moving a locomotive, it’s unnerving. It leaves the impression of hard work. A woman’s screams during sex excite a man, while a man’s screams frighten a woman. Fright and orgasm don’t go together.
Lack of attention to the partner
Again, two extremes of the same mistake. It’s terrible to feel used when your partner ignores your feelings, when he’s indifferent to whether she’s reached orgasm. Having achieved satisfaction himself, an attentive man will definitely bring his partner to the finish. This will be greatly appreciated. Another scenario is when a man constantly asks whether orgasm has occurred. It’s frustrating when a sexual partner doesn’t understand and ignores a woman’s reaction to his actions. This lack of understanding causes irritation.
TRACES ON HER BODY
Hickeys and bruises, as evidence of intense passion, are of little interest to the fairer sex. Women aren’t embarrassed by the marks they leave behind; they simply don’t like it, they feel uncomfortable knowing something is wrong with their bodies. It’s perceived as a cosmetic defect that must now be addressed and concealed. The impact of great sex is dramatically diminished when the reflection in the mirror afterwards is uninspiring.
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