Now, you can message not only useful information or how your day went, but also dirty talk, intimate photos, and so on. This phenomenon is called sexting. Of course, it’s a matter of personal preference. The rules of the game are determined by the two partners engaging in sexual correspondence. However, there are general guidelines that both men and women should follow.Sexting rules
Rule #1
You need to completely trust the person you’re communicating with intimately. There’s always a risk that the other person could be a dishonest, deceitful bastard. Nowadays, it’s easy to make something secret and confidential publicly available online, so you should always think carefully about who to have such a conversation with and who to send nude photos to. Of course, if someone really does find themselves in such a situation, if they’re being blackmailed, they can safely sue the other person. There’s a good chance they’ll win, as no one has the right to expose a person’s private life except themselves.
Rule #2
You need to be very careful and vigilant to avoid sending a vulgar photo or a dirty message to the wrong recipient. This will be a very awkward situation, and it will be difficult to escape unscathed.
Rule #3
For sexting, you should only use your own communication devices, which have special security software. This significantly reduces the risk of being hacked.
Rule #4
It’s recommended not to store these types of messages and photos, especially not to upload them to special cloud services. While they are designed to protect anything from prying eyes, they can also be hacked.
Rule #5
Don’t sext at work or school. Yes, sometimes you’re bored and have nothing better to do, but such activities are, firstly, very arousing, but there’s no private place to release it, and keeping it to yourself isn’t recommended. Furthermore, it’s very distracting, and there’s a risk of someone noticing, as people tend to be curious. Such correspondence should be strictly intimate, meaning it should be kept secret only between the people in question.
Rule #6
If the other person is a stranger, or if the acquaintance is limited to texting, then avoid sending obscene photos where their face is visible. This again refers to the first rule: to prevent anyone from blackmailing you with the photos. They won’t show a face, so no one will know who’s in them.
Rule #7
It’s not advisable to engage in sexual texting while drunk. Firstly, it’s not the person themselves who are doing the talking, but the alcohol, which dulls the brain’s thinking processes. Coordination is lost, leading to typos, which can make you look stupid in the eyes of your interlocutor. Alcohol also makes you write overly silly phrases that only evoke laughter rather than arousal.
Rule #8
Proper sexting shouldn’t start with hot photos or videos. It’s more like a dessert served a little later. First, you need to turn your partner on with dirty talk. If it doesn’t work, and the response is dry or distracting, it’s best to stop; that means they’re not in the mood for it right now. If your partner’s interest is piqued, then you should use all your skills in complimenting, your imagination, ambiguous hints, and so on.
Rule #9
You can tease your partner with photos. It’s best to send body parts that your partner particularly enjoys. Do this sparringly. First, send one photo, then another half an hour later. Each time, they should get hotter and more piquant. You can also send a sex toy, a screenshot of a Kama Sutra position, lingerie from an intimate goods store, and so on.
Rule #10
If a video is chosen as the intriguing message, then a creative approach to filming is also essential. Consider the location, clothing, lighting, removing unnecessary clutter, and so on. A sex toy can be used as a playful element. In any case, in such a situation, you need to use your imagination to the fullest, fully surrendering to your desires and your imagination.
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