However, numerous online revelations from women indicate that men are quite emotional when it comes to sex. American sexologist Justin Lehmiller argues that men’s intimate fantasies included themes of care and romance just as often as women’s.
A man ready to immediately mate with any beautiful woman, a brutal, sex-obsessed man, is nothing more than a stereotype; men are also capable of appreciating affection and attention from their partners as a motivating factor for intimacy.
Development of sensuality
A man can be moved by the woman’s gentle hygiene routine: soaping his beloved’s body in the shower and then rinsing him off with a showerhead, paying attention to the most sensitive areas—the groin, armpits, and buttocks. A special ritual for his feet can be created: playing relaxing music and massaging his feet in a basin of warm water, remembering that for many, feet are an erogenous zone.
Continue foreplay with a man by blindfolding him and influencing him with subtle touches and scents. Touch his earlobe, touch the sensitive area of his neck, and immediately hold a bottle of vanilla fragrance, an incense stick, or a sachet of herbs to his nose. It’s a good idea to use a feather duster or a powder puff for tactile contact. Such games are very intimate, create a playful mood, and heightened sensitivity.
Striptease
If a man is a fan of overt sexuality and unambiguous messages, he’ll surely appreciate an erotic dance performed by a beautiful woman. It’s important to ensure the striptease doesn’t appear comical—clumsy and graceless movements are more likely to make your partner laugh than to excite him. Model and actress Carmen Electra offers excellent erotic dance lessons—free from vulgarity and a hint of lewdness—that can turn on even the coldest man; they’re easy to find online.
While dancing, you can throw a removed stocking around your lover’s neck or let him inhale the fragrant scent of a woman’s body by pressing the cup of your bra to his nose.
Such foreplay is especially valuable for a man as a moment of care – it is obvious that his beloved has been preparing for this.
Erotic massage
“Sakura Branch” is an Eastern massage designed to bring a man to climax through kisses alone. A cool kiss with an ice cube in the mouth, or breath warmed by hot coffee, nibbling kisses on the back, the feeling of a gentle tongue on the sensitive skin of the neck—all of this will arouse your partner and direct his thoughts toward eroticism. Men find the practice of a woman rubbing her hard nipples over his body quite exciting.
From the arsenal of Eastern seductresses, you can take the following technique: the girl lubricates her thighs with oil and, positioning herself above her partner, slowly slides, delivering pleasant sensations and warming up desire with the friction of her silky skin and genitals against the man’s body.
Women with long nails should use their manicure: by scratching their partner’s back, arms, and legs, you can give him pleasant goosebumps.
Men, of course, generally move more quickly from an erotic thought to noticeable physiological arousal, but they too can appreciate light erotic play, which significantly increases the pleasure of sex for both lovers.
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