Does it depend on how you dress, how much time you spend online before bed, or even whether you tend to eat at night?
Secrets of good sex
All these seemingly unrelated things have one thing in common: they demonstrate the dynamics of your development as a couple.
Balance is key
A recent study found that couples with balanced relationships report higher levels of trust and satisfaction with their sex lives. This balance is most clearly reflected in how you divide up responsibilities within the family.
Balance can be discussed in those couples where one of the partners does not feel that they have to bear some area of life exclusively on their own (be it earnings or household responsibilities).
And even children are considered
Childcare has a particularly significant impact on a couple’s sex life. A survey of 487 couples found that when both partners share equal childcare responsibilities, sex is not only more frequent but also more enjoyable. Childcare encompasses the entire spectrum of relationships, from feeding to play, parenting, and even choosing and buying clothes.
In relationships where the woman received most of the childcare, couples were less satisfied with sex. Notably, sex was less enjoyable (to the point of “not wanting it at all”) not only for the woman but also for her partner.
Unfortunately, researchers have been unable to definitively determine the causes. It may be due to either greater fatigue in one partner or the resulting emotional disconnect when worries and joys are not shared.
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