1. Missionary position
What’s wrong with it?
Here everything is obvious: this position simply does not imply clitoral stimulation, which for most women means a lack of pleasure.
How to fix
The solution is to use the coital alignment technique. This position is very similar to missionary, but is more responsive to your partner’s needs.
2. Doggy style
What’s wrong with it?
While you are enjoying deep penetration, your partner may writhe in pain, as the penis (especially a large one) in this position hits the cervix hard.
Besides, this position definitely isn’t close or intimate. For some women, this is a definite drawback.
How to fix
To avoid causing pain, try to thrust slowly and not too deeply. To make the position more intimate, kiss your partner, stroke her hair, and stroke her back.
Another option is to change positions a little and simply lie on top: this way your bodies will be in closer contact, and the pace and depth of penetration will automatically become less intense.
And of course, don’t forget to caress your clitoris. This position is quite comfortable.
3. Rider
What’s wrong with it?
The reason is insecurity. Women often think about their bodies during sex, and in this position, it causes them the most anxiety: while the partner imagines her breasts and stomach shaking, her desire rapidly declines.
How to fix
The first thing a man should do is let his partner know he’s crazy about her body. Don’t skimp on compliments before, during, and after. Of course, low self-esteem issues aren’t solved with a few sweet words, but over time, you can expect to see results.
Another extravagant option is to suggest having sex blindfolded. This might loosen her up a bit.
If nothing helps, it’s better to simply suggest a different position.
4. Reverse cowgirl
What’s wrong with it?
The angle of penetration in this position is unusual, so many women may find it uncomfortable. Furthermore, clitoral stimulation is again impossible.
How to fix
Paradoxically, doggy style (with the improvements suggested above) may be the best alternative. The essence is largely the same, but the opportunities for female pleasure are greater.
5. Reverse cowgirl on the back
What’s wrong with it?
The disadvantages of the previous position include the fact that the partner must exert a fair amount of physical effort. Not everyone can handle it.
How to fix
If you want to take a more relaxed position without overexerting her, a good alternative is the “spoon” position, lying on your side. It’s perfect for taking a break and then continuing with renewed vigor.
6. Position 69
What’s wrong with it?
Many women simply find it difficult to relax and enjoy mutual oral sex.
How to fix
It’s simple: caress each other not simultaneously, but in turns. If after orgasm you’re no longer capable of active action, it’s logical to let the woman go first.
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