The explanation for this name is quite simple: it comes from the English word “finger”.

And actually, fingering means sexual caresses with fingers and hands. And most often, it is given to a woman.

In Russian, this concept could very well be translated into the vulgar word “lapat’” (to paw), but that’s not what we’re talking about, of course. We’re talking about how to make fingering a truly sensual and enjoyable experience.

Hands should be well prepared for this : no untrimmed or dirty nails, no hard hangnails, and generally completely sterile clean. Otherwise, there’s a high risk of vaginal infections. The germs will then spread to your partner, so both partners will need to be treated. If you’re unsure about their hand hygiene, suggest they wear thin surgical gloves. These are readily available at pharmacies.

Don’t skimp on the lubricant. It’s never a bad idea, but especially so here. It will provide additional protection against microtrauma and a more pleasurable experience.

Don’t rush. Early on, a man’s haste will simply not provide any pleasure to the woman, and by the end, he can get so carried away that, again, he could end up getting hurt.

There is also a recommendation to listen to your body and tell your partner if he or she is being too rough.

Help your partner. They can use their fingers to perform certain types of caresses, while you can also caress yourself in the same places, in the areas free from their fingers.