In this regard, Europeans are particularly interested in geishas,whom many consider expensive prostitutes, although this is not entirely true. Initially, geishas were simply actresses who finally replaced men in the female roles of traditional Japanese Kabuki theater. Later, refined and educated actresses found admirers among the audience and were able to establish mutually beneficial relationships with them. Some girls actually became courtesans and had patrons, like modern escorts. However, prostitution was not their primary occupation, and in 1779, geishas were banned from selling their bodies altogether. Nevertheless, in the minds of ordinary people, geishas remain a model of refined sensuality and lovemaking.Sex started before bed
Beauty standards in Japan were quite distinctive – for example, geishas didn’t emphasize their bust and waist; instead, their breasts were bound, and their waists were concealed by a kimono and obi sash. What was supposed to excite a man and direct his thoughts in an intimate direction was a bare neck and a distinctive gait. The delicate skin of the neck, visible through a low-cut collar, was considered a particularly alluring detail. The mincing gait of girls in high sandals was also highly erotic for contemporaries – the girl was supposed to create the effect of a breaking wave with the hem of her kimono.
A casually slipped robe sleeve or a gracefully turned wrist enticed and aroused the connoisseur in a subtle and discreet manner. There was no frontal assault; everything was done with the utmost sensuality and refinement—sex with a geisha began long before bed.Erotic massage
Geisha lovemaking tolerates no fuss or haste, so their introduction to the male body begins with an erotic massage. Many are familiar with the “cherry blossom” massage technique, which is designed to bring a man to a frenzy and peak pleasure through kissing alone. The woman begins with less sensitive areas (back, forearms, thighs), slowly moving toward the intimate zones. She uses all types of kissing—a gentle touch of the lips, a passionate hickey, a light squeeze of the mouth, as well as a puff of air and caresses with the tongue.
The massage involved using a piece of ice to heighten sensations; the girl would take it into her mouth and move it over her partner’s body.
It was a whole ritual designed to set the partner in a sensual mood and bring him to a crazy excitement.Vumbilding
Some sources report that geishas placed great importance on trained intimate muscles in their sexual practices. Historians share accounts of jade balls that ancient beauties placed in their vaginas to learn how to hold them in place simply by tensing their internal muscles. This skill not only provided intense sensations for the man, who experienced ecstasy from the contraction of the vagina around his penis, but also for the geisha herself, enhancing orgasm.
In modern sex shops you can now find such balls, although they are made from more technologically advanced materials.
Women can practice by squeezing their intimate muscles, first holding the lightest balls, and then gradually moving on to the heavier ones. Learning to move the ball inside the vagina will be the pinnacle of mastery.Oral sex
A very important moment in lovemaking initiated by a geisha. The exchange of fluids in Eastern culture is a very serious procedure—after all, it is at the moment of orgasm and ejaculation that a man shares energy.
Geishas were masters of oral sex. One of their favorite techniques resembled the modern figure-eight: during oral sex, the woman moved her head left and right, back and forth. Another interesting technique was used: while fully immersing the penis in her mouth, the woman would perform a swallowing motion, providing the man with stunning stimulation.
Nowadays, numerous schools of intimate mastery offer training in the ancient geisha bed techniques. Whether geishas actually used them is difficult to say, as little information about their intimate lives has survived. Incidentally, not all Europeans were captivated by this culture: the renowned writer Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, who once visited Japan, was disappointed by a visit to a teahouse – he was disheartened by the dreary strumming of the shamisen (a national musical instrument) and the mournful singing of the girls. He believed that the charm of geishas was greatly overrated and did not make the desired impression on Europeans.
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